Fem Erkaya, LMHC, LPC

Fem Erkaya, LMHC, LPC, founder of Knots Counseling, a psychotherapist providing individual therapy, couples therapy, and clinical supervision in Brooklyn, New York, and virtually across New York and New Jersey.

Fem Erkaya, LMHC, LPC is a dual-licensed psychotherapist operating an exclusive private practice serving clients across New York and New Jersey. Fluent in both English and Turkish, Fem provides sophisticated individual psychotherapy, high-advocacy couples therapy, and specialized consultation to high-performing professionals, executives, and couples navigating complex interpersonal and systemic architectures. Her approach is rooted in advanced psychodynamic and contemporary relational theory, offering an intellectual partnership that goes beyond standard clinical management.

Fem holds a Master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling, supplemented by advanced, early-career training in complex psychological trauma and acute behavioral crisis. Her foundational clinical work in Turkey—providing high-stakes psychological interventions to international populations facing severe adversity and displacement—instilled a sharp, highly sophisticated understanding of systemic pressure, resilience, and the intricate layers of multicultural identity. This cross-cultural fluency allows her to navigate the unique existential and relational challenges faced by modern, global citizens.

Her clinical mastery is anchored by rigorous, post-graduate psychoanalytic training at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy (ICP) - formerly known as The Training Institute for Mental Health (TIMH) in New York City. This intensive formation demanded deep engagement with complex relational mechanics, advanced psychodynamic theory, and a consecutive four-year personal psychoanalysis. Navigating the analytic framework from both sides of the room has provided Fem with an uncommon, lived precision. It removes standard clinical detachment, allowing her to offer a steady, highly calibrated presence capable of holding deep psychological tension with absolute discretion and clarity.

Also an educator in her field, Fem has contributed significantly to the training of the next generation of clinicians, having served as an adjunct instructor within the Psychology Department at Brooklyn College. Today, she continues to provide strategic clinical supervision, advisory consultation, and professional mentorship to advanced practitioners looking to deepen their own clinical identity.

Within her private practice, Fem rejects superficial clinical trends and manualized behavioral checklists. Instead, she treats therapy as a rigorous, collaborative exploration of the unspoken architectures, repetitive relational dynamics, and internal narratives that dictate performance, intimacy, and fulfillment. Her work is distinctively sharp, intellectually demanding, and tailored exclusively for individuals who demand depth, integrity, and sustainable psychological transformation.